Lady Finds Out Her Fiancé Is Already Married to Somebody Else

A girl says she discovered her fiancé continues to be married to his ex — and now she’s questioning if she’s justified in demanding that he search an instantaneous divorce.

The lady detailed her state of affairs on the “AIBU? [Am I Being Unreasonable?]” discussion board on U.Ok.-based neighborhood website Mumsnet.com. In her submit, she shared that she and her companion have been collectively for 4 years, however she not too long ago found that he’s nonetheless married to another person. 

The unique poster (OP) stated that she discovered the data out by way of one other one in every of his exes, who reached out to her on Fb after seeing her engagement pictures.

“I’ve met his spouse masses as they share children (age 12&14 collectively). They break up 9 years in the past however apparently by no means sorted the divorce out,” the OP defined, including that her fiancé claims he merely “forgot” to say it.

“I don’t know why he saved this from me,” she continued. “I’m not even certain what his plan was right here — marry me whereas nonetheless married to his ex?”

She then shared that she has since demanded that her fiancé break up or “we’re over.”

“AIBU [am I being unreasonable]?” the lady requested, concluding her submit.

Platform customers have been fast to share their opinions on the state of affairs within the submit’s feedback part, with the overwhelming majority of individuals saying that the lady ought to assume lengthy and arduous earlier than committing her life to this man.

“I might discuss to his spouse to see why they did not divorce,” one commenter wrote, including, “However do you need to marry a person who does not take authorized stuff significantly? That is the least sinister chance right here. I could not marry a person like that.”

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“Dump this liar,” one other individual urged the OP.

Another person stated: “He didn’t neglect that he was nonetheless married. I’d be extra insulted and aggravated by that s— excuse than by him proposing whereas nonetheless already married within the first place. He actually is insulting your intelligence there. Hand the ring again, and inform him the engagement is off till he’s divorced.”

“I hope in your sake you haven’t merged funds or personal any property with him,” the identical individual added.